How To Ensure Everyone Speaks In Stand-Ups

Are your meetings dominated by the same voices? Are brilliant ideas left unspoken? You're not alone. Many leaders struggle to ensure every team member feels heard. Here's a harsh truth: If the same 2-3 people dominate your meetings, you're hemorrhaging innovation potential every single day. The culprit? Your inability to embrace silence. Most leaders ask a question and wait 1.8 seconds before moving on or calling on the usual suspects. The cost? Every breakthrough idea from your quieter, more thoughtful team members. Try this tomorrow: The 7-Second Rule. 👉Ask your question 👉Shut up (completely) 👉Count to 7 in your head 👉Watch what happens Why 7 seconds? It allows for reflection, encourages diverse input, and empowers quieter team members. Impact: - Empowerment: Every voice matters, not just the loudest. - Quality Ideas: Unearth deeper insights and creative solutions. - Cultural Shift: Signal that thoughtful contributions are valued. The hardest part? Resist the urge to fill the silence! Instead: - Ask engaging questions. - Embrace the pause. - Observe and reinforce positively. Leaders, your silence speaks volumes. It creates space for innovation and builds an inclusive culture. This deceptively simple tactic transforms meetings instantly. 👍Your quick thinkers still contribute 👍Your reflective thinkers finally speak up 👍Your junior staff stop self-censoring 👍Your discussions become exponentially richer I've watched leadership teams implement this one change and unlock ideas that were buried under years of "only the loud survive" culture. Great leaders don't just make decisions – they architect environments where the best decisions can emerge from anyone, regardless of title or temperament. If you try it and it works, please reach out and share your story.

Ever been on a team that's too quiet? Not focused-quiet. But hesistant-to-speak-up quiet. I once worked with a leader whose motto was: "Silence is 100% agreement." We would chuckle politely. Our silence wasn't agreement. It was fear. Here's what I've learned after nearly two decades coaching people leaders. People don't need to find their voice. They need to feel safe using it. Here are 6 ways to create that safety, without forcing anyone to speak before they're ready: 1. Listen to learn ↳ Pause before responding: "Help me understand your thinking on…" ↳ Reflect back: "Here's what I heard, did I get that right?" ↳ Let people know when their input reshapes your thinking 2. Build confidence before the spotlight ↳ Pair teammates as "thinking partners" to test ideas before meetings ↳ Use 1:1s to help less vocal members frame input as exploratory questions ↳ Normalize iterations. "What if we considered…" often sparks breakthroughs. 3. Model transparent communication ↳ Share your thinking: "Here's my view and why I see it this way…" ↳ Be open about uncertainty. It gives others permission to speak ↳ It's okay to change your mind in public when presented with strong alternatives 4. Facilitate solution-building sessions ↳ Ask: "What would success look like for everyone involved?" ↳ Use "Yes, and…" to build momentum, not shut it down ↳ Try brainstorm rules: build on others' ideas before introducing new ones 5. Disagree without making it personal ↳ Start with: "We're debating the approach, not anyone's expertise" ↳ Use neutral framing: "There are different perspectives here" ↳ Keep feedback focused on outcomes and impact, not personality 6. Make space for the quiet thinkers ↳ End with: "Let's reflect for 24 hours before deciding" ↳ Send pre-reads with clear reflection prompts ↳ Start key conversations with a few minutes of silent thinking When you shift from demanding participation to designing for it, you're not just changing meetings. You're redefining how power flows through your organization. How do you create space for insight that isn't loud? ♻️ Feel free to share if you're working toward conversations where every voice has room. ➕ If you lead people, this space is for you. Follow me, Michelle Awuku-Tatum for insights on: ↳ Human-centered leadership, resilient teams, and intentional culture.

Early in my career, I worked with two very different leaders within the same company. Under the first, team meetings were silent affairs where new ideas were often met with criticism. We stopped contributing. When I moved teams, my new manager actively encouraged input and acknowledged every suggestion, even the imperfect ones. Our productivity and innovation skyrocketed. This experience taught me the power of psychological safety. That feeling that you won't be punished or humiliated for speaking up with ideas, questions, or concerns. Here are three concrete ways leaders can foster psychological safety in meetings: 1. Practice "Yes, and..." thinking. Replace "That won't work because..." with "Yes, and we could address that challenge by..." This simple language shift acknowledges contributions while building on ideas rather than shutting them down. 2. Create equal airtime. Actively notice who's speaking and who isn't. Try techniques like round-robin input or asking quieter team members directly: "Alyzah, we haven't heard your perspective yet. What are your thoughts?" 3. Normalize vulnerability by modeling it. Share your own mistakes and what you learned. When leaders say "I was wrong" or "I don't know, let's figure it out together," it gives everyone permission to be imperfect. AA✨ #PsychologicalSafety #InclusiveLeadership #WorkplaceBelonging