Techniques for Handling Procrastination Triggers

I’ve shared these 6 research-backed strategies with several friends wanting to avoid procrastination (at work and home), and they work every time: 1. Create a "Not-To-Do" List Most people focus entirely on what they need to accomplish. But research shows they should be equally focused on what they shouldn't be doing. Write down three things not to do alongside three things to do. If someone needs to clean their garage, their not-to-do list might include: • No Netflix  • Not putzing around in the kitchen  • Don’t check email/social before 10 a.m. Clarity on what to avoid creates mental space to focus on what actually matters. — 2. Make Public Commitments Studies show that public accountability increases follow-through. You can announce your goals on social media or to friends. For example: "I'm cleaning my garage this weekend and posting before/after photos on Monday. If anyone sees me scrolling Facebook, tell me to get back to work!" Public accountability creates just enough social pressure/accountability to push through resistance moments. — 3. Set Up Smart Barriers Shape your environment to make procrastination harder and progress easier. Digital barriers: • Create separate computer users (one for work, one for play) • Uninstall distracting apps from the work profile • Remove social media bookmarks • Install parental controls on their own devices Helpful shortcuts: • Set important apps to open automatically when they start their computer • Remove distracting apps from their phone's home screen • Keep only essential tools easily accessible — 4. Use the 5-Minute Starter Research shows that the hardest part of any task is simply starting. So I trick myself into it. I open the doc and write one sentence. I pull one box out of the garage. Once I start, momentum does the rest. That initial 5 minutes eliminates the mental barrier of "where do I even start?" — 5. Stop at the Peak (Never Finish Sections) Never end work at a natural stopping point. For example, I’m currently writing my next book and I never stop at the end of a section. I stop mid-sentence. The next day, I pick up exactly where I left off. There’s no inertia, no overthinking. (BTW my next book will ALSO start with a “C” can you guess what it will be?!?) — 6. Dream Big (Think Abstract) When bills pile up or clutter builds, it’s easy to stay overwhelmed. So I pause and visualize how I’ll feel after. A clean closet. An empty inbox. That emotional payoff actually helps push me through. These 6 simple shifts make it easier to follow through without relying on willpower.

In 2013, I quit my cushy $200k/year job at Cisco to chase the startup dream. Two years later, I was staring at my bank account balance: $11. What happened? My journey from corporate dropout to failed entrepreneur: • Left a prestigious systems engineer role at Cisco • Poured my 401k into a tech startup • Watched it all crumble due to unchecked procrastination The culprit wasn't laziness. It was anxiety-driven paralysis. Here's the brutal truth. Procrastination isn't just about poor time management. It's a complex emotional regulation problem. I learned this $250,000 lesson the hard way. Rock bottom hit hard: • Drained retirement savings • Crippling depression • Self-doubt spiraling out of control But failure wasn't the end. It was the beginning. The turnaround secret? Mastering my mind. I developed a system to conquer procrastination. 1. Identify the root cause Most procrastination stems from: • Fear of failure • Perfectionism • Overwhelm Pinpoint your trigger. Name it. Face it. 2. Break the anxiety-procrastination loop: • Practice self-compassion (I used to beat myself up constantly) • Use micro-commitments (Start with 5 minutes, not 5 hours) • Celebrate small wins (They compound over time) 3. Reframe your relationship with time: • Stop thinking in terms of "perfect timing" • Start embracing "good enough" action • Remember: Done is better than perfect 4. Build a support system: • Find an accountability partner • Join a mastermind group • Invest in coaching (It changed my life) 5. Create high-stakes scenarios: • Public commitments • Financial penalties for missed deadlines • Rewards tied to completion The result? I've built an 8-figure coaching business, helping thousands break into tech. From $11 in my account to $25M+ in high-ticket sales. The lesson? Your biggest setback can become your greatest comeback. But only if you're willing to face your demons head-on. What's holding you back from your potential? Let's crush those mental blocks together. - Thanks for reading! If you enjoyed this: Follow me, Terry Kim, for more content on productivity and creating the life of your dreams through action.

Procrastination happens to the best of us. Even those of us who teach productivity for a living sometimes find ourselves scrolling social media (like RIGHT NOW) instead of tackling the article I’m supposed to write, the tricky conversation I need to have, and the administrivia that I need to follow up on. I mean YOU. Did I say “I”? :) The key isn’t to eliminate procrastination entirely;,it’s to have the right tools to get yourself unstuck when it happens. Here are a few “procrastination pep talks” you (I) can give yourself (myself) when you (I) find yourself (myself) stuck: 1. “This feeling is information, not a verdict.” Your procrastination is trying to tell you something. Maybe you’re overwhelmed, uncertain where to start, or afraid of not meeting expectations. Instead of judging yourself, get curious about what’s underneath it. Once you identify the real issue, you can address it directly and move forward. 2. “You don’t have to feel ready to get started.” Readiness is overrated. You’ll rarely feel completely prepared or motivated to begin difficult work. The most productive people don’t wait for the perfect moment. They start anyway. Action creates momentum, and momentum creates motivation. Not the other way around. 3. “Progress over perfection.” That report doesn’t need to win a Pulitzer on the first draft. Your job right now isn’t to create something perfect; it’s to create something improvable. Give yourself permission to produce work that’s good enough to refine later. Version 1.0 beats version never. 4. “Break it down until it feels doable.” If the task feels overwhelming, it’s probably too big. Keep breaking it down until you find something manageable. Can’t write the whole proposal? Write the outline. Can’t do that? Open the document and write the first line. There’s always a smaller step you can take right now. 5. “You’ve done hard things before.” Remember when you thought you’d never figure out that challenging project? Yet here you are. You have a track record of working through challenges and getting things done. This task isn’t any different. 6. “Fifteen minutes is enough to start.” You don’t need three uninterrupted hours to make progress. Set a timer for 15 minutes and commit to working for just that long. Often, starting is the hardest part, and once you’re in motion, you’ll want to keep going. 7. “Your future self is counting on you.” Think about how you’ll feel tonight if you continue avoiding this task versus how you’ll feel if you make real progress. Your future self will either thank you for pushing through or wish you had started sooner. Be the person your future self can count on. Procrastination isn’t a character flaw. It’s an emotional avoidance habit. And like any habit, it can be changed with the right strategies and self-compassion. The next time you find yourself stuck, choose one of these pep talks and give it a try.